1. In Margaret Cho’s, “I’m the One That I Want” article, she discusses about the ways in which she was asked to star in a sit-com based on her life and how she was raised by an Asian household. As well as how she was scouted to do this show. Not only does it discuss this fact, it also shows that the ultimate main idea that is that you shouldn’t have to feel like you need to change yourself for anyone.
2. An example that can prove my point stated above is on page 104, she describes how the producers of the shows approached her and how they ultimately convinced her to do the show. She shared that they gave her many compliments and they shared a really strong desire and hope for her to be the star of the show. Of course, these type of actions would make anyone feel great about themselves and their confidence level would have shot up. These are movie/TV producers/writers flattering you and asking you to take part of the show and be the main character. Anyone at this point would give in and agree to it. These were just empty words that were being said in order to cast someone who had low self-esteem and was seeking for love. However, it turned out later that the exact same people who flattered her and asked her to be the star of a show that’s about her own life, asked her to lose weight and said her face was a problem. It’s crazy to see and realize how selfish some people may be. They were just there complimenting her and now they’re here telling her that something is wrong with her. I don’t think I can understand how she had to lose weight to be in a show that was about “herself”. If it really was about herself and her life, she didn’t need to lose weight in the first place. This really speaks out to me because it shows the standards one has to be to be attractive in the eye.
3. A term Margaret Cho introduces in this article that I felt was important to know and understand was “multiculturalism” on page 129. This word was use in the context that someone close to Margaret Cho commented that the sit-com All-American Girl was doing actually a lot more harm than good. The word means the support for the presence of several distinct cultural ethnic groups within a society. It’s important to receive love and equality as well as to give love and equality no matter the race or gender. We are all one.
4. This article reminded me of Eddie Huang, who wrote an autobiography called, “Fresh Off the Boat” that was turned into a TV Show. He explained that this show was not about his life nor was it about Asian Americans.